unrealistic expectations

the useless ramblings of an atypical teenage tortured soul

Tara, 16, I've lived in three countries and want to see the world. I like eclectic things, fashion, radiohead, literature, minimalism, music, writing, food, and above all, travelling . I love intellect and chivalry and sophistication, and I have a supreme lust for Paris. I enjoy my blog, it's full of things I like and things I like to look at, or things that inspire me. I want to live in a french town called Senlis when I grow up and I like to write. I love education and I love shy people. I follow back if I like your personality; I try to always answer messages. I have an advice blog, dear-hoch. love me.

xeroist:

I hate having to predict about guys. It’s so heart wrenching trying to figure it out. Why did he say that? Why did he do that? What does he mean? I wish I could just not think about it - or get the answer.　

❝ If only i had checked myself

— guy who wrecked himself (via manosukestoned420)

(Source: chrisweedboygenius)

Chores:

britticisms:

It shouldn’t be, but you’ll never believe how much loving yourself can be a chore. It is much easier to believe the world. We are taught that the ways of the world are correct. This is the real world, they say. This is just how things are, they say. And yet, the real world is one full of hate, of pain. The real world says that your voice does not matter, that your feelings are not important, that who you are is not good enough. It shouldn’t be, but you’ll never believe how much loving yourself is a chore. But it is a chore you take on, a chore that becomes your everyday and then something you look forward to and then what you do eagerly. The real world may be full of hate and pain, but it is also full of people like you and me who work everyday to prove that we are more than the reality thrust upon us.